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Still Saturday: What’s To Be Done?

May 8, 2015 By Sandra Heska King

CRABAPPLE BLOOMS - BUECHNER

 

“You are seeing everything for the last time, and everything you see is gilded with goodbyes. The child’s hand like a starfish on the pillow, your hand on the doorknob. Caught between screen and window, a wasp unfolds one wing. With a sick smile, guilt-ridden, the old dachshund lurches off the forbidden couch when you come through the door, his nose dry with sleep, and makes for the pillow by the hot-air register.

“It is the room where for years Christmases have happened, snow falling so thick by the window that sometimes it has started to snow in the room, brightness falling on tables, books, chairs, the gaudy tree in the corner, a family sitting there snowmen, snowbound, snowblind to the crazy passing of what they think will never pass.

“And today now everything will pass because it is the last day. For the last time you are seeing this rain fall and in your mind that snow, this child asleep, this cat. For the last time you are hearing this house come alive because you who are part of its life have come alive. All the unkept promises if they are ever to be kept have to be kept today. All the unspoken words if you do not speak them today will never be spoken. The people, the ones you love and the ones who bore you to death, all the life you have in you to live with them, if you do not live it with them today will never be lived.

“It is the first day because it has never been before and the last day because it will never be again. Be alive if you can all through this day today of your life. What’s to be done? What’s to be done?

“Follow your feet. Put on the coffee. Start the orange juice, the bacon, the toast. Then go wake up your children and your wife. Think about the work of your hands, the book that of all conceivable things you have chosen to add to the world’s pain. Live in the needs of the day.”

~Frederick Buechner, The Alphabet of Grace

 

what's to be done

CRABAPPLE BLOOMS2

In the stillness,

Sandy

 

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  1. Joanne Viola says

    May 9, 2015 at 7:09 am

    Wonderful quote but then I so enjoy Buechner. This line spoke to me > “Live in the needs of the day.” What is it I must tend to today? What is before me in this moment? May we not miss what our God has for us each day. Beautiful photos as always 🙂 Blessings!

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 9:40 am

      Tend to this moment–because it’ll be gone in a moment forever.

      The line that first spoke to me is, “You are seeing everything for the last time, and everything you see is gilded with goodbyes.” I stayed there for awhile.

      Bless your weekend, Joanne.

  2. Michele Morin says

    May 9, 2015 at 7:31 am

    I love coming to this place on a Saturday. Whenever I read anything by Buechner, I think of my favorite Buechner-ism: “If you beat a path to God long enough, He will come to meet you on that path, bearing the gift of Himself.” There is such hope in those words, and I have the same hope listening to his words about THIS day.
    Blessings to you this on this Saturday morning.

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 9:41 am

      Oh, Michele. I love that. Let’s keep beating that path together.

  3. Patricia @ Pollywog Creek says

    May 9, 2015 at 8:58 am

    Gorgeous photos, Sandy. And that quote – I remember having a sense of it being the “last time” years ago as girl scout – riding on a bus to camp I looked out the window and tried to memorize the leaves on the trees because I knew I’d never see them again. I’ve also had that awareness as my children grew, and it’s a constant stream of thought these days as we wait for Emily to find a job and move from the only house she’s ever lived in. Even without those hallmark moments, each of our everyday, ordinary days are “last time” moments. Have a lovely weekend, my beautiful friend. xoxox

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 9:51 am

      I think I remember you sharing that before, Patricia, about riding the bus to camp. Praying for this transition for both you and Emily, the bittersweetness of it.

      And this tree… I’ve gotten to enjoy it for a week. The blooms are already fading, and the petals have sprinkled themselves all over the roof and clustered in the drive. Another reminder to breathe in the moment.

      Love to you, Patricia. xo

  4. Jason Stasyszen says

    May 9, 2015 at 11:43 am

    Living fully in the moment and the day in which I’ve been given–some days it feels impossible. Other days it’s easier. I need these reminders, Sandra. Thank you.

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 6:07 pm

      It feels the same for me someday, Jason. I need these reminders, too.

  5. ~ linda says

    May 9, 2015 at 12:06 pm

    What fine words! Reminds me of brother Lawrence who lived like this each day. I think I want to reread that little book again.
    Caring through Christ, ~ linda

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 6:07 pm

      Good plan, Linda. I think I will, too. 🙂

  6. Heather @ My Overflowing Cup says

    May 9, 2015 at 12:17 pm

    I love this beautiful reminder to see each day as a brand new gift. May we make all of ours the best we can for our good and for God’s glory.

    Thanks so much for hosting, Sandra. Blessings to you and yours.

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 6:11 pm

      Amen to that, Heather. Happy weekend.

  7. Lynn D. Morrissey says

    May 9, 2015 at 12:57 pm

    Oh my goodness, Sandy!!! I have never read this book, and Diana Trautwein quoted a portion of what you have cited here, and now I know I MUST read this! I am overwhelmed by the beauty of his words, and his attention to the brevity of life.

    Going to go hug my husband!
    Love
    Lynn
    Yay, I’m getting your posts!

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 9, 2015 at 6:12 pm

      It’s a beautiful little book..poetic.

      Happy hugging, Lynn, and I’m glad the posts are coming through again. Cuz I’ve missed you. 🙂

  8. Laurie Collett says

    May 10, 2015 at 7:37 am

    So beautiful, Sandra. May we live each day as if it is our last, for every day is a gift never to be experienced again. May we know Him in the beauty of each moment. Thanks for hosting & God bless.

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 13, 2015 at 8:25 am

      Oh, amen, Laurie. I don’t think you know how timely your comment is. (Writing a post now. 😉 )

  9. Dawn says

    May 11, 2015 at 10:29 pm

    That was a beautiful passage. Just being content to live in the day we are given and rest in the blessing of all it brings with it…Grace for every day.

    Thanks for sharing inspiration.
    Blessings,
    Dawn

    • Sandra Heska King says

      May 13, 2015 at 8:27 am

      For every day… one day at a time. Yes, Dawn.

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