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in which cancer brings clarity #PrayForDavid

March 11, 2013 By Sandra Heska King

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Last Thursday I wrote about crushing and brokenness and how it’s the crushed who seep the sweetest fragrance and how the broken and the bent bend the brightest light. I wrote about hope in the face of disappointment and life-shattering circumstances.

The next day, I learned that David Landrith, pastor of Long Hollow Baptist Church out of Hendersonville, Tennessee, has been diagnosed with a rare and aggressive form of cancer–colorectal melanoma. (I traveled to Haiti in December with a team from this church.)

One minute he and his wife were gathering fresh feathers to fluff their soon-to-be-empty nest, and the next being told that their future would look far different from what they dreamed. The diagnosis carries a very grim prognosis.

A crushing blow.

But it’s in our why-me moments, he reminds us, that we need to remember that the right question is not “why” but “Who.”

Who loves us so much He gave up everything and was crushed as a fragrant offering for us?

Who is in control of everything in heaven and on earth?

Who promises to never, no not ever, leave us?

Who works good out of every circumstance for those who love Him?

Every. Circumstance.

Even though it may not be in our lifetime.

Sometimes it takes something like cancer to bring clarity to our priorities.

David reminds us to never, no not ever, take our time on this earth for granted.

To remember that this breath could be our last.

To never waste our cancers or our crushings.

And to cling to that red cord of hope.

A hope that’s not in the rescue but in the Rescuer.

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He covets prayers for miraculous healing, of course, but also for peace and strength and faith and rest in God’s sovereignty–for himself and his whole family. For wisdom for the doctors because this type of cancer is so very rare.

But most of all, his heart’s longing is that others will see the difference that Jesus can make when our earthly life seems to spin out of our control.

Pray that he would dwell in the shelter of the Most High and rest in the shadow of the Almighty, that he would find refuge under His wings and remain enfolded in the cover of His feathers.

The church posted yesterday’s sermon. It’s powerful. You don’t want to miss it. Trust me on this.

Would you #PrayForDavid?

 

Special Message from David Landrith from Long Hollow Baptist Church on Vimeo.

“This is a special message from David Landrith, recorded live at our Hendersonville campus on March 10, 2013 (11:45am service). In this message, David explains how he has been recently diagnosed with cancer and how he intends to live his last days.”

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. ~Psalm 90:12

Stilled (again) by the brevity of time,

Sandy






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  1. Jody Lee Collins says

    March 12, 2013 at 12:16 am

    Sandy–Thank you for sharing this tender, hard story, especially in that you just spent time with this church family only months ago. This makes no sense in the natural but so much sense in the supernatural…God will have his glory.

    I look forward to watching the video sermon–thank you for including it.

    • Sandra says

      March 12, 2013 at 10:39 am

      Have tissues by your side, Jody. It’s heartbreaking, and yet so very inspiring.

  2. Janet says

    March 12, 2013 at 9:23 am

    Thank-you for sharing. I will pray.

    • Sandra says

      March 12, 2013 at 10:38 am

      Thank you, Janet. With so many storming the throne on his behalf… well, it will be something to see what God will do.

  3. Deborah says

    March 12, 2013 at 3:51 pm

    I’d be honored to keep you and yours in my prayers ~ All is well with your soul. Sincerely Deborah

    • Sandra says

      March 12, 2013 at 5:04 pm

      I know David and his family are grateful for your prayers, Deborah. Thank you.

  4. Dea says

    March 12, 2013 at 4:09 pm

    So humbling to hear this testimony of faith…thank you for the privilege of praying for David. Rev. 12:11

    • Sandra says

      March 12, 2013 at 5:10 pm

      Such a good word, Dea. Others will triumph because of David’s testimony.

  5. Linda says

    March 12, 2013 at 6:24 pm

    Oh Sandy. I will be praying.

    • Sandra says

      March 12, 2013 at 11:01 pm

      Love you, Linda. xo

  6. Cecilia Marie Pulliam says

    March 12, 2013 at 11:22 pm

    I will pray for him and his family, Sandy. What a terrible shock for them. It is only through God’s grace this can be overcome, if not physically, then emotionally and spiritually. My heart, as well as my prayers go out to him and his family.

    • Sandra says

      March 13, 2013 at 10:21 am

      Praying for a drenching of His grace. Love to you, friend.

  7. Beth says

    March 13, 2013 at 8:41 am

    Sandra, David and his family will be in my prayers. What beautiful words you share…to remember who He is. Prayers lifted for “peace and strength and faith and rest in God’s sovereignty.”

    • Sandra says

      March 13, 2013 at 10:20 am

      Thanks so very much, Beth.

  8. Megan Willome says

    March 13, 2013 at 9:43 am

    I have a friend who lost her husband due to an aggressive cancer at exactly the same time of life (brand-new empty nest). I’ve watched God’s hand on her life since then–amazing.

    • Sandra says

      March 13, 2013 at 10:20 am

      If you watch the video, you’ll see that his family is one of his biggest concerns. And his church family. The assurance of their growth through this would be a great comfort to him, I’m sure. Thanks for this, Megan.

  9. JoAnne Potter says

    March 13, 2013 at 12:16 pm

    “To never waste our cancers”
    This is it, exactly.
    Cancer is one of those things the enemy does to cause harm, but God allows to do good. It brings blessings with the pain. It focuses us into a narrow point, a place where only God is visible. It came like a guest that seemed never to leave, but ended up being a gift that just came in rags. We are so grateful for the cancer that came to our house. No, never waste your cancers.

    • Sandra says

      March 13, 2013 at 11:12 pm

      “A gift that just came in rags.” And a focus into a narrow place where only God is visible. I’m going to be thinking about that, JoAnne. I had a really hard time seeing my mom’s brain cancer as a gift, but the gift of His presence through those days–that was wrapped in a big bow.

  10. tammy@meadows speak says

    March 13, 2013 at 6:27 pm

    I’d be honored to share in this prayer with others. Thanks for including us.

    • Sandra says

      March 14, 2013 at 1:31 pm

      Thanks so much, Tammy. 🙂

  11. Genevieve says

    March 13, 2013 at 7:16 pm

    Cancer was God’s siren call to surrender for me. Surrender my plans for life, surrender the care of my husband and children should I die, surrender my hair, surrender my very life. And as He walked me through the journey – and walks me still, as cancer still lives in me after these 5 years – it was the Refiner’s fire, yes, but oh so many times He gathered me into His arms. Opened my eyes to the beauty and joy of life through the potential fleetingness of every season with my family. Yes, cancer brought me clarity. At 28, it felt like a death knell as I held my 6 week old son in my arms. At 34, I look back and realize how rich His blessings, how infinitely more He had to give me, through what seems like a tragedy. This IS our moment to shine as Christians, when suffering hits, and plans scatter to the four winds, and we take joy and find peace and are beautiful through the covering of Christ’s blood. These my prayers for your friend!

    • Sandra says

      March 14, 2013 at 1:34 pm

      “Cancer was God’s siren call to surrender.” Oh, Genevieve! This is a powerful testimony. And you are so very young. I am praying for you, my friend, as you continue to walk through these flames. Much love to you.

  12. Sheila Seiler Lagrand says

    March 13, 2013 at 10:48 pm

    Praying.

    And praying some more. Love you, dear one.

    • Sandra says

      March 14, 2013 at 1:37 pm

      David has posted that he will see a specialist at Vanderbilt on Tuesday and have surgery Thursday–a week from today. He also plans to preach Sunday.

      Love standing in the gap with you. xoxo

  13. Sophia DeLonghi says

    March 15, 2013 at 10:58 am

    What a powerful message! Challenged me to make that dash matter! Thank you!

  14. Vivian Johnson says

    March 15, 2013 at 12:15 pm

    It will be an honour and a privelege to pray for this Gentleman.

  15. Mark Boucher says

    December 18, 2013 at 5:13 am

    Nice Blog about cancer.

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