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Reflections on @stickyJesus: Chapter 3

December 30, 2010 By Sandra Heska King

Sisters–one of my favorite relationships. What gifts.

“When 75 percent of U.S. homes are using social networking (Nielsen), it’s no longer an option for Christians to be online in some capacity; it’s a responsibility. . . Online is where people are and online is where Christians need to be.” ~Scott Williams in @stickyJesus

And once we are online, what’s it all about?

It’s not just about reciting the four spiritual laws or posting inspirational quotes or sharing links or promoting personal blog posts or books.

Although those things are certainly part of it.

What it’s really about is building relationships.

Real relationships.

Being real.

Sharing stories–joys and struggles.

Sharing wholesome giggles.

Listening to others.

Representing Jesus.

Being a servant leader, with compassion and consistency.

Including others, not being too quick to block them (with discernment.)

Being an encouragement.

“You never really know how God is going to use your voice online.”
~Scott Williams in @stickyJesus

I love the stories in this chapter of real online folks who have made real online connections.

Like Scott, who helped another through a crisis, one who may not have had the courage to share with those around him.

Like Jenni and Pete who used Twitter to gather forces to serve Nashville during the great flood of 2010.

Like Meredith who leads a virtual community in praying the Daily Office online and Marie who co-leads Tworship.

Like Heather and Melinda, gifted with the face-to-face presence of Twitter friends during times of personal trial.

It’s about instant mobilization of prayer warriors.

It’s about expanding real connections with real people across the world without neglecting those near at hand.

This chapter also gives online action plans for leading, serving, being consistent, extending compassion, bringing encouragement, and including others.

And it’s scripture drenched.

And by the way, several of my own real online relationships have turned real face-to-face, and I expect to meet more of these friends during the next year. They have helped me stretch in my faith.

“Help me see beyond the streaming words, faces, and images. Remove the scales from my eyes so that I can see the wreckage behind all the shine.” ~@stickyJesus

Linking with Michelle Sarabia and others as we walk through this book together.

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  1. Michael says

    December 30, 2010 at 11:57 am

    Oh wow. I believe I am finally gonna pull the trigger and order this.

    • Sandra says

      December 30, 2010 at 12:18 pm

      Good deal! I would rate this as one of my favorite books of the year.

  2. S. Etole says

    December 30, 2010 at 12:31 pm

    “the wreckage behind the shine”

    it’s there, isn’t it, that we truly meet?

    • Sandra says

      December 30, 2010 at 4:17 pm

      Indeed!

  3. jasonS says

    December 30, 2010 at 1:08 pm

    That opening quote succinctly puts it into perspective. Love your thoughts, and I couldn’t agree more. Great post–thanks!

    • Sandra says

      December 30, 2010 at 4:20 pm

      Thanks, Jason. That we have a responsibility to be online was an eye-opener for me.

  4. Brooke says

    December 30, 2010 at 4:15 pm

    its amazing to think that we,too, could have the kind of influence in our online communties as those highlighted in this chapter!

  5. Louise says

    December 30, 2010 at 5:34 pm

    Thank you Sandra — your post reminds me that there is power in our words — no matter where we share them. Let them share them in goodness and joy. Let our words be instruments of peace…

    Hugs and Happy New Year.

  6. Melinda Y. says

    December 31, 2010 at 5:29 am

    Snady- Thank you. Forever grateful that our hearts made a divine connection. Linking arms with you (and IRL) ~ sharing His vision, His light, His hope in the online mission field continues to strengthen me and grow my walk in the Lord.
    Your friendship leaves a lasting imprint on my life. SSF
    LYI

  7. Michelle says

    December 31, 2010 at 4:36 pm

    I am so thankful that through @stickyJesus I am able to have this relationship with you. You have been such a blessing and am grateful you are on this journey with me.

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