They streamed in this weekend–from “down below,” “up above,” and just a “hop-skip.”
AKA from “down state,” from “the U.P.,” and from home–just a short drive.
Three grandchildren, one spouse, one boyfriend, three great-grandchildren, a niece and her family.
It was a sun-shining, picture-taking, memory-tucking time.
Last night, after everyone had gone and Mom had napped long, my sister went out for pizza and “real” Coke.
She didn’t know I’d bought one of those individual bottles of zinfandel last week when I splurged on the “shrimpfest.”
So while she was gone, we got Mom up and wheeled her down to the dining room.
I found a fancy goblet for the pink wine and poured a little.
She swirled and sniffed and tasted. “Why is this called white?”
“I have no idea, but I’ll be in trouble if you get tipsy before Sissy gets back.”
She spent the waiting time sipping and doing finger-to-nose.
My sister doesn’t mess around when it comes to pizza.
She brought back two large mixed ones–ham and pineapple, veggie supreme, pepperoni, and a meat-lovers along with breadsticks and dipping sauce.
We invited the nurse and aide to come eat with us and my dad while we listened to golden oldies.
We talked about horses and chickens and goats until they had to get back to work.
We laughed.
A lot.
My dad went out to the lobby to work on the Anne Geddes jigsaw puzzle.
(I finished it this morning. It was a brand-new puzzle. How could it already be missing a piece?)
My sister and I acted out instruments to–I think Mack the Knife, but I’m not sure.
Mom laughed at us.
We talked about taking the Sandy and Candy Show on the road.
Candy asked if we could go to the Bahamas.
Manager Mom said yes.
I asked about San Diego because I knew Candy loved it there.
Manager Mom said yes.
Then I asked about Las Vegas because I knew Mom like it there.
And Candy said there should be a lot of venues we could “play” there.
But Manager Mom said they’d all be booked.
“But you’re our manager. You need to pull the strings.”
Manager Mom thought about that for a moment before she answered. “Whenever I pull a string, a nurse comes.”
We howled.
“Oh, Mom! You better pull a string now because I think I just wet my pants!”
On your feet now—applaud God! Bring a gift of laughter,
sing yourselves into his presence.
Psalm 100:1-2 (Message)
Lynn Mosher says
Oh, Sandra! That’s so wonderful that you are able to fool around and make your mom laugh. Such a sweet together time. Thanks for sharing it with us!
Duane Scott says
I LOVE the ending. 🙂 LOL!
Shanda Oakley says
Aw..these are the memories that will always stay with you.
Lyla Lindquist says
Check your dad’s pockets. When we were kids, one of us always seemed to make off with a puzzle piece so that he/she could be the one to finish it.
I love how these raucous, joyful moments come on during the hard stretches together.
Patricia says
Oh, yes… sacred moments of hilarity. =) I love the creative way God blesses!! =)
laura says
I. Love. Your family. And this: “a sun-shining, picture-taking, memory-tucking time.”
Yes. You all do those things so well. Praying for you, sweet friend. Life is crazy here but will slow down soon. Missing hanging out by the river…
diana says
Oh, such a sweet story – all of it, right up to and including wet pants! That’s the best kind of laughter in my book. Your mom sounds like a kick and a half – and kudos to all of you for carving laughter into this season of good-byes. LOVE it.
Sheila says
Sandy,
This one undoes me.
Beyond words, it does. Love you.
Monica Sharman says
Thanks for the laughter!
(Hmmm, for some reason I’m thinking about my sweatpants with the drawstring…)
Cecilia Marie Pulliam says
Those are the most precious moments, family simply enjoying each other and making the best of where ever they find themselves. Beautifully written. I felt like I was right there with you, close like a family member. Really, a beautiful post.
Joanne Norton says
Made me chuckle a bit on the way through and grin big time at the end. What a treat!