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Concrete Compassion

September 20, 2010 By Sandra Heska King

Of the six traits of stickiness that we review in this book, concreteness is perhaps the easiest to embrace. It may also be the most effective of the traits.

Kill the Curse of Knowledge. Show me. Don’t tell me. Engage my senses. Let me see and hear and touch and smell.

Compassion International has a simple core mission–releasing children from poverty in Jesus’ name. Child sponsorship is the core of how they do that.

But what does that mean? And how do you penetrate a concrete heart with the pain of poverty?

Maybe you do something unexpected. Gather a small group of bloggers and break their hearts. And in that breaking, they pour out words and haunting images that engulf us in a sea of despair and then show us sun-warmed islands of hope. Their messages stick. We can make a difference–one child at a time.

I could tell you about a minor meltdown this weekend. A door slammed so hard it stuck shut and took at least twenty minutes, four brains, eight hands, one screwdriver, and a couple of feet to release it–with pulling, pushing, pounding, and even kicking.

I could tell you about a child’s brief anger while in time out and the following remorse–just discovered this morning.

Or I could show you.

And I could remind her about a Jesus who breaks a concrete heart and the poverty and hopelessness of living without Him.

And I could show her some photos of children stuck inside poverty’s door, and we could be Jesus by writing a letter today to our Lucy in Kenya.

And we could send some photos and some stickers.

We’re discussing Made to Stick by Chip Heath & Dan Heath, learning why some ideas survive and others die. Pop over to High Calling Blogs and read the post and discussion led by Laura Boggess as well as find links to related posts.

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  1. laura says

    September 20, 2010 at 1:27 pm

    Wow. The showing–so powerful. Sometimes I wonder…why do we do the things we do? I’m not talking just about a child having a temper tantrum. Don’t we grown-ups do it too? Long week over here, but I’m learning something from these Heath boys about making a message that impacts.

  2. Michael says

    September 20, 2010 at 2:09 pm

    This is just loaded with awesomeness.

  3. deidra says

    September 20, 2010 at 2:57 pm

    This is good. The “J” in the concrete wrapped up in a heart? It’s just as they say: A picture is worth a thousand words.

  4. Duane Scott says

    September 20, 2010 at 3:17 pm

    Yep… I had lost you on my google reader. I don’t have time to read anything right now, but now at least you know I haven’t forgotten ya. 🙂

  5. Faith Hope & Cherrytea says

    September 20, 2010 at 3:26 pm

    liking the concreteness of your ‘go be Jesus’ today –
    my weekly monday challenge
    interestingly, today’s post pictures God’s LoVe too 🙂

  6. S. Etole says

    September 20, 2010 at 4:12 pm

    Pictures say it well … as do your words.

  7. Lyla Lindquist says

    September 20, 2010 at 8:51 pm

    Would that I could learn to use fewer, better words.

    It really doesn’t take that many to make a good picture, does it?

    Beautiful stuff, as always.

  8. Susan J. Reinhardt says

    September 20, 2010 at 9:03 pm

    Hi Sandy –

    I read somewhere that organizations usually show only one child because it becomes more personal. A massive group doesn’t have the same impact. Our minds go tilt.

    It reminds me of the rules of writing where less is more.

    Blessings,
    Susan 🙂

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